09 August 2017

Bengang dengan Mak?

Why should you love your mom?
A very nice question if you're a bit annoyed by them.

I have been a mom for almost 4 years. Alhamdulillah, let me tell you it wasn't easy. And I have so many years ahead to raise my children. Sometime rasa penat sangat, constantly fikir macamana lah nak buat ni..

The irony, bila kita kawin, kita nak sangat anak. Allah dah cipta keinginan tu sebab ada anak nampak best

Bila jadi ibu, erti kata lain kita sign contract 'I give my life to you'. What tha??

Mula-mula ada anak memang bummerrr... I'm like, omg what have I got myself into... Yelah tak biasa kan, ada tak korang tengok cerita 'Boss Baby'? Si kecil buah hati ni akan boss kita tak kira masa, kita tengah makan ke, tengah mandi ke, suka hati dia je demand. hahaha 🤭 Kalah maid engko.

Nak ke toilet pun kdng dia ekot, merayap dengan lenggang lenggok nya yang comel menuju ke toilet. Boleh bayang tak privacy? Not anymoree...

Mothers akan dahulukan anak-anak and this thing is NATURE! Walaupun dulu masa bujang-bujang tengok drama mak-mak semua dahulukan anak ada terfikir,  'Kalau aku tak lah, mehhh.' But guess what? I did the same once I become a mom. 😆DAHULUKAN ANAK dalam semua.

Probably ada switch for this kind of things kan? Allah cipta naluri mak2 mcm ni. Nak makan bagi anak mkn dlu, nak pakai bagi anak pakai dlu.

So why? Why? Why? Ada yang tak syg mak ni? Rasa tak fair ke bila mak tak ikut kemahuan?

HEY PEOPLE, READ THIS. Your mother, mom, mommy, umi, tak cukup tido, tak kenyang makan, tak cukup rehat, dan mengalah dalam banyak hal untuk korang. They spend separuh hidup dia or probably more untuk besarkan korang.

Sometimes they cry, I've seen mine at a time where I still didn't understand why. Until I experience it, belakang-belakang nangis. I cried a lot, mostly sebab tired. I let this be known because I know, semua mothers pasti rasa.

Pastu, mak dia tak berkira, dia dah penat-penat besarkan korang, pastu korang hantar pula cucu, dia dengan rela hati terima. Sayang, pula cucu lebih dari korang as the mom.

So you should love your mom. Kalau mak marah tu sebab mak syg. Kalau tak syg tak ada la korang sekarang. Logic kan?

Bengang dengan Mak?

Why should you love your mom? A very nice question if you're a bit annoyed by them. I have been a mom for almost 4 years. Alhamdulilla...